If you’ve gone further than kissing it is normal going to the steps to follow before sexually intimate (having sex). It’s like the steps process to become alcoholic, which begins with the first shot or little beer. What is recommended for christians, is to avoid being in places attracting each other to intimate too much. Try going to places where social contact is allowed. Avoid bedrooms, being home alone or dark corners that may stimulate singles to intimate. That’s my advice in general.
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