If you will read some of the other threads on Praize, you will be able to get a really good idea of what is right and what is not.
I think you are asking the wrong question. Ask yourself what you would like to have in a mate. Wouldn’t you like to have someone who has saved himself (kept himself pure) for you? Do you want someone who has passionately kissed other women? God has one right person in the plan for your life. If you will wait, He will bring that person. I have known people that have waited a VERY long time, but then God brought that perfect one and it was amazing. I have also known people who have not had to wait long at all and God brought the perfect one.
But when in doubt WAIT. Always. On any decision. Wait until you are SURE you have heard from God, for satan is the deceiver. And read and live by Prov. 3:5-6.
God bless you!