I’ll certainly continue to pray in this matter. My husband started helping my single neighbor up the road after a broken reltationship. Today they are married. Many many years ago, but at the time I could not believe it happening I was so trusting. It is good you have called attention to what you are feeling and even if he doesn’t ‘quite get it’ at least he is attempting to reconcile his behavior. Men are different animals emotionally compared to us. There are some good books out there you might consider especially by Gary Smalley. The 5 Languages of Love is very good since it talks about male and female love language and perhaps he would be willing to read with you. If you ever need prayer don’t hesitate to post in prayer forum or drop me a line. Take care.