Hey Paul !
You know something I appreciate, is when my hubby actually sits down and askes me what I want. What is that I need to feel loved and appreciated. I know for me security is a big one, as is for most women I suppose.
May I suggest a book to you called the 5 Love languages. This will show you how to figure out what your and Michele’s love language is . Then you can read and understand better what she and you need. I know it helped me understand what it is that Omer needs.
Just some ideas Bud !
Luv you and Michele Bunches !
Sheila 
