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Paul Straz
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ok.. is this a prayer forum or am i allowed to give advise??

1st of all, there are reasons why Paul said not to be unequally yoked w/ unbelievers.. and it was to our benefit. I think this is one of the reasons.. they are not following God, so they dont have the voice of the holy spirit as their guide.. they dont have much of a concience, and will be more self seeking than God-seeking. I am amaized though how she could forget her own kids and you, to run away with this creep. I would talk to this guy whom she is ‘going with’ and explain to him your feelings in a man-to-man way.. show him how much your hurt by it, and make him feel the shame of what he did.. with God’s help.. perhaps he will see what a good guy you are, and leave her alone.

(the worst thing you can do is violent behavior toward him, including threaten him)

I would call a lawyer and ask him what your options are.

remember, your in not so bad a place.. because you have scripture to cover your case.. in case you ended up w/ divorce.

1cor 7:12:If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

[13] And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

[14] For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

[15] But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

[16] For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?

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