I believe the verses you are looking for are:
Ephesians – Chapter 5:22-24,33
22. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.
23. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.
24. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
33. …and the wife must respect her husband.
There’s a lot on the internet to explain this further. I’ve added one link here that might help explain both sides.