Having been sexually abused by three persons through my childhood, and have had the anger you seem to express, I know how frustrating it can be to accept any answer.
But I have found one answer that is “universal” with the word of God. That is, it’s an answer that just is, like it or not, it is the answer: that part is frustrating, but if you love God and his word it is also an assuring answer.
We know God hates sin.
We know he hates sin with a Holy hatred.
We know the punishment for sins is death, and the lost sinner and eternal, literal burning in anguish and pain lake of fire.
Such a server punishment.
And what disgust God so much of sin that he deals so harshly forever with it?
2 reasons I know of.
1. He is Holy, and can not allow sin in Heaven.
2. And mark these words, SIN IS SO BAD, EVEN THE INNOCENT SUFFER.