roleon8wheels said, “… I hate having to demand my rights, it would be far eaisier just to give up church altogether. But i feel that God has given me a voice for disabled people. if i don’t do this then there is much more at risk than just my rights…”
Obviously you need to complain more. It may seem unchristlike but SO is the churches attitude. Also it is obvious the vicar is NOT supporting you, if he did, then the board would have done it’s task.
I believe you have been patience long enough. Check with the Governments policy regarding disability and also see what penalties they would impose. The church has complied with the spirit in allowing accessibility BUT not the law. Now it needs to be taught a very valuble lesson in REAL accessibility.