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Carol Baca
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Is there a man on this planet that isn’t into porn? Is there a man on this planet that truly loves, respects and honors his wife or girlfriend enough not to use porn? I really want to hear from the men on this one. Hopefully men who are or were in a healthy sexual relationship with a woman they “say” they love. A relationship where you are or were into porn and where it would or has crushed your women as the result. Atheists and Christians, please be honest. I know it will be hard since honesty and porn don’t fall on the same page. In fact they don’t even fall in the same book. And when I say please be honest, I mean even you Christians; I know a lot of Christian men, as well as atheist, that are secretly into porn.

It absolutely amazes me how a man will sacrifice a good relationship with a beautiful, caring, sexual woman for porn, and will always justify his actions, when there are no justifications. Always try to lie his way out when there is no way out. (yes I know there are women into the same).

It seems to me that porn has the power to draw one in no matter of consequences. It has the power to make one sneak, hide, pretend, say what needs to be said in order to appease and not be exposed, and worst of all, LIE. Its power is one that promotes self-gratification over morals, love, and respect. Its power completely controls one at the expense of others, at the expense of relationships. Yet for most self-gratifiers they know it’s wrong. They know that what they do will and does hurt and destroy emotions, trust, and relationships. BUT THEY DO IT ANYWAY. WHY?

I have so many questions and I’m sure you all have lots of answers, but we will start here and see where we go with this. I bet I’m in for a battle on this one, huh guys? But guess what? I have lots of free time on my hands and I’m prepared for this one.

I do want to say this right off, if you honestly don’t see anything wrong or harm done in secret use porn (one partner uses it knowing it will hurt the other), and if you don’t see it to be destructive in relationships, then please teach me how to use porn in my relationship. Teach me how to drool over hot, well-blessed, hard body men. Teach me how to get off on the many different men day after day. Teach me how to study and fantasize about certain body parts. Help me to fantasize how it would feel to do some of the things I see them do, how it would feel with them. Help me fantasize about these men; make love to these men day after day. Teach me how to look my man in the face and say I love and respect you as I make love to him with another man on my mind.

Just a side note. I’m not some overweight housewife with curlers in my hair sitting around eating and watching soaps on TV. Please no offense ladies. I am an active, healthy, attractive, very sexual woman.

Ciao

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