HI people



I am suffering from something that may seem very stupid, it's that I find it hard not to be attracted by those girls that are physically attractive in my university, I know that it's not wrong to be physically attractive but I just feeel bad that everytime I look at a girl, like all other worldly people, just look at the physical aspects(body, face..etc) I feel really bad that I am a Lord's sheep but still cannot live a heavenly life and that my heart is always drawn to the attractive females and sometimes I feel that those girls are more lovable than God. I know I should seek things that are deeper such as being a good sheep of God and live a holy life and share gospel and learn the scriptures and stuffs, but ...



Please pray for me, folks.



God bless you all.



-Wayne

This certainly is a very common problem and a temptation for many men. The physically attractive females may think that all they have to do is look attractive to get a man but you know that the Christian women are thinking more about being the person God wants them to be. This is why a Christian woman would make so much of a better wife. I know of men who fell for an attractive woman and got married and they were absolutely miserable. It just didn't work at all b/c they were unequally yoked with unbelievers.

Oh Dear Lord, I pray, help his man, Wayne, to see things from God's point of view when he goes to school. I pray that he will seek out a Christian woman if he needs a girl friend and it seems that he does. Lord, I pray for your will in his life and that the right woman will come into his life at the right time. Let him know beyond a shadow of a doubt that the right one is the right one. I pray that she will be very attractive too but that she will be a strong Christian and the right one for him. We praise you and thank you, Lord, for your provision and that you care about every detail of our lives. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

Marcia

Wayne,

God bless you for remembering God in your life.

A healthy young man is naturally sticky. Its just glands

adjusting you to the life God gave you. So, don't think

anything is wrong because your body is responding to the

presence of women. That's a sign you are healthy.



Now, what you might consider is what the Bible tells you.



"Walk in the spirit and you will not fulfill the lust of the

flesh." Lust and flesh go together. Your response to your

flesh will proove your faith in God. Self discipline is rarely

pleasant. However, it does reap the fruit of righteousness to

those who are exercised thereby.



I am so glad Jesus came as a MAN because he knows what a man endures in life. Jesus was a YOUNG man too. He certainly knows about waking up in the morning like a man does. Jesus is present to help you through your difficulty. Practice becoming more aware of the presence of Christ. The Holy Ghost will give you the power to live a victorious life of sanctification.



I went to college too and it wasn't easy being a handsome young fellow in a college full of healthy young women. I fit the profile of just what they thought I needed. One woman invited me into her bed. I told her I really was flattered by her offer, but did she know about the man who loved her so much that he was willing to BLEED for her? She was intrigued and I had a chance to tell her about real LOVE and real pleasure. She didn't ask me again to have sex with her, but she DID respect me. That is worth a lot to a Christian man at college. Respect is very rare.



I'll be praying for your victory over the flesh, the world and the devil.



God Bless you.