Here is the problem, my mom and i are exactly alike, we don't get along very well and we give my sis a headache. What can i do to make the relationship with my mom more peaceful than "war"like? How do two people who are alike get along?

       There are no two people alike in this world. Your mother is much older and wiser than you so that is what makes the difference.Thank God that you have such a mother and respect her and you will be blessed Gb D.G.

 

I have come here asking the same question. We arrgue all the time, and I aleady have some of my own medical issues that do not help, but I can't stand not getting along even though I may not show it.

my dad doesnt get along with me at all he hates my music when I said I liked the color of this resterant he sed it was ugly and he makes me do stuff that I dont want to do and go places that no one wants to go to exept him and hes anoying he comes home from work doesnt talk barely ever does anything and hes mad at me all the time cause he thinks Im failing all my classes ....so I can never get along with him so I guese we have the same problem

It truly amazes me how similar our situations are. My mother and I don't get along at all sometimes, but in others we are the best of friends. I definently understand where you are coming from and I want you to know that I pray that your relationship with your mother will grow and that you will stop arguing. Email me anytime at terribeth@praize.com.



Your sister in Christ,

Terribeth

First of all, restrain your yelling. If you sis gets a headache on the account of you and your mom, you must be making too much noise! When in a dispute, talk reasonably, and keep your head about you. Attempt to not get carried away, and work on it if you fail to do so. Seek a rational crux between to both of you and be open-minded with one-another’s opinion. Contemplate you mother’s side of the argument, how she would feel. Control your emotions most importantly! Don’t yell and have a brawl over something trivial.



I don’t really know the complete context of your relationship with your mother, so I can only analyse the argumentive side of it.

I really don't know how much help I can be since I'm nearly the complete oppisite of my mom and she is my best friend. I guess I could say I'm in the same situation as your sister becuase my mom and sister are excactly alike. excactly. And Well in our tiny house it can be a war zone sometimes. I think It's becuase my sister is older and always home. she does nothing socailly and isnt really independent. I however am really independent and am busy becuase of the paper. but earlier this year my sister got involved more and started doing more stuff independently there have been nearly no outbursts. Sometimes space is the best thing.