Stop looking for Mr. Right that is not your task to do !

Adam noticed he was lacking a suitable partner and sought one !

"A man who findeth a wife finds a good thing". Well my point is the Groom chooses his bride and the bride recieves him Jesus is coming for the church soon the Bride aka The Church. Is The Church going to pick up Jesus? Of course not ! He is coming to get us so I say again Women stop looking for a husband your Husband will find you!!!! Love you in Jesus name Keep the Faith Fear Not Faith Always!!!!!!!!

Amen! I know that I have a tendency of every time there is a new man at church (we are very small, so it's easy to know who is new). I have asked God to help me in this area, as I don't want to be so focused on who my husband is, but on who God is. I know that once God is not threatened that I will put my husband before him, and he has delivered me from some things that I picked up when I was married to my abusive husband, then he will send him. Until the time you are ready, God will not send the man you are to spend the rest of your life with to you. I thank God for being single right now, as I can totally concentrate on serving Him and let him continue to mold me into the godly woman he wants me to be as well as show me the wife and mother I am to be.



God bless all!

LOL! That is awesome!!! It is totally true and completely applicable. Thank you SOOO much for sharing the insight! May God bless you and keep you today and always!

This is very true. I have talked to many married couples about when they have first met their husbands. A lot of them said that if he is the one, he will keep bugging you and will not leave you alone. My dad did it to my mother and a older friend of mine.. her husband did it to her! The man just would NOT give up. My mother and my friend both said that they didn't see their husbands anything more then a friend.



Although, that changed!

Sabrina God bless you, you have said exactly what needs to be said,,,we 'the ladies' need to wait on Jesus and continue serving Him in faithfulness and Holiness and when the day has come the groom will find us,we should never go out there and try to find our life partners...that is the task of the men.men are the pursures,we are the one's to be persued..how sweet that is!!!!



i met a lady who claimed God had showed her who will marry her and now since this man seemed just quiet on the subject she was actually presenting herself before him so that he can notice she was there....and what's more...she was the ONE.





SOMEONE SAID ''LET GOD WRITE YOUR LOVE STORY'



READ MATTHEW 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.



stop hurting yourself.

Hi Sis,



I agree with you on this but I always think of Ruth when this subject comes up. Also, if we don't make ourselves visible, or available then who is going to notice us? I know God can do ALL things in His timing. But I can't help but wonder if finding a man is so different than finding a job. You can't sit there on your couch and expect a job to come to you. Again, if God wills it yes. I attend church but I don't stare at every man that comes through the doors so in that respect, no, Im not looking. Same as if I go to a store etc. But I cannot get rid of the longing to have a mate. I have asked God to remove the desire if He doesn't want me to have a mate but He hasn't removed it. I think about God most of the time each day. I rarely think about meeting a mate. But, there are times when I get so lonely for that sort of companionship and I end up here online. I don't make a lot of money to go out and participate in all the acitivities where christian men might have an opportunity to "court" me, LOL!! This is assuming someone might want to do that



God bless and very glad to be part of this site your sister in Christ, denise

I agree with you Sabrina! There's a great book I just read called The Truth About Guys, and it was written by a Christian guy who says healthy Christian guys want to SEARCH for their wife, like a treasure hunt, not have the woman be an easy target. It really made me think....it was a total revelation.

Have any of you ever been SO lonely you've cried hard into your pillow? Have any of you been SO lonely you've wondered when YOUR time is coming? Have any of you been SO lonely it's like dull, achy pain?



I have been like this at different times in my life. The lonlies are always there. It doesn't make the lonlies go away just by trying to talk yourself into going it alone. Dream fantasies about how you love being alone and by yourself isn't living in reality. I know what I'm talking about.