Being submissive to a spouse is something that is done in love. Not something that a man can demand of his wife. I think many men misunderstand and misinterpret this statement. Ephesians 5 makes it clear that both parties are responsible to one another.
21Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
22Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Divorces aren't all caused by rebellious women. Divorce is usually caused by infidelity. Which according to the bible is an acceptable reason for divorce proceedings. Many women probably aren't submitting to the man because the men aren't standing up to their role as head of household. And many homes are no longer Christian.