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Sat, Nov 19 2011 - 04:10 PM

"The Bride" - Premarital Conflict

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The Church is currently experiencing premarital conflict! The Lamb of the marriage supper is being overlooked. A few of the invited guests are parading themselves as the Groom. The fruits of the flesh are attempting to join the banquet. The bride should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white. The fine linen is the righteousness of the saints according to the Book of Revelations. The Church is the bride of Christ. Jesus will return for His Church of this we can be assured. But how close to being ready are we? Collectively as well as independently? The signs of the time are quite apparent. We are encountering a multiplicity of phenomenal events. Earthquakes in divers places, heinous crimes, same sex relationships, blatant adultery, questionable political elections but what does it all mean? Time is winding down. In earlier times a marriage betrothal represented a respected covenant. A covenant is something you keep not something you merely repeat. The Church’s responsibility has not changed in spite of what’s going on. The Bride should be in preparation for a wedding celebration.

God has placed His heirs in various places to prepare for this great event. Man can not number the guest list. It is so vast and contains such an array of guests that He has elected an international, interracial, multi cultural, conglomeration of folks. Their level of responsibilities differ greatly. Yet the overall objective should not take any attention away from this glorious blessed event. Peter tells us “but you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to GOD, that you may declare the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His wonderful light. Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy. Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day He visits us.” I Peter 2: 9-12 NIV. How prepared are you for His coming?

Preparing for a wedding involves much joy as well as fear and trepidation. But we can be assured that this wedding is in the will of God. The bridesmaids and groomsmen should not become confused. Their objective should be to assist in fostering a healthy spiritual environment for the ultimate feast. The instructions to prepare for this event have been given to us by GOD. He has even left His Holy Spirit to guide us and direct us to all truth. The truth is the bridal path. The CHURCH has only one Groom. No one can take the place of Jesus.


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deborrahk - 6 years ago

Praiceop2, As always you are WELCOME! Thank You! God Bless You!

praizeop2 - 6 years ago

WOOOOHOOOOOOOO a GREAT word!!! Thanks for posting. Sarah

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About: DeBorrah K. Ogans is a Marriage Educator, Christian Counselor, Life Coach, Author, and ordained minister. Certified through the Sarasota Academy of Christian Counseling in Creation Therapy and hold a Master’s Degree in Biblical Clinical Counseling. She is the author of a pre-marital guide, "How Do I Love Thee: Things You Need To Know Before You Say I Do", and "Holy Matrimony: Now That You're Married". DeBorrah has written extensively and has a plethora of columns that are widely published. She writes to encourage individuals, couples, families, youth & children to persevere through life challenges and adversity by working together to develop healthier, loving, safe nurturing living environments that promote well-being Visit her ministry site at

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